How to grow without thinking negative to anyone
As you grow, you learn something new that is either in line with your past beliefs or otherwise pushing you to set up a new mindset afterwards. This phase leads you to see the world differently, I guess it should be more positive than before.
However, with the realizations that come up along the way, you are also aware that sometimes the world and people work against you. You are overly aware and conscious about how people think and how they verdict a situation. You over analyze the condition in regards to the learnings that you got from the books you read, the idea you found out from this morning article from Medium, or any notions that you fathomed recently, remind you that something does not run ideally.
But I think, the more you learn and understand something, the more you realize that there are plenty of things that you need to dig deeper or broader to get a more comprehensive concept about the topics. Sometimes it comes with the real experiences as well that come up with any new perspectives that point out the previous notions that you got.
It is never perfectly constructed, you may not always go with a perfect way of thinking, books are formed from someone else’s way of thinking, beliefs, and perspectives. It may go against other people’s ideas, even between books. That should be identical with everything that happens in real life. People with different journeys of their own, they read different books than you that shape their mind or even they may not yet get exposed to the reality and experiences that you have gone through recently.
The level you grow should go in harmony with the level of wisdom you acquire. People are more complicated than you think, you get to reflect it from your own cases. You will never understand a person 100% sure. People are different from you obviously, we are very unique in our own way. We can not always put our own perspectives to other people’s cases since we have different pathways in this life.
Let others be with their choices, give spaces, be supportive with all the capacities that we have.
